No, not controlling. Just as in if I feel the negative mood I ignore any comment that can lead to a fight. So if I'm not commenting or feeding into his bad mood, he switches out to a normal mood. Basically I'm not giving him the satisfaction of my old B****y ways, so he can say You see, you'll never change. (one of his complaints is my nasty attitude)

Lately when he's near me he's been rubbing my back or arm briefly or rubbing my hair when he goes by, as if it's just a "passing by brush" what's up with that? He hasn't done that in a very long time. Esp not since the Bomb in 10/08. But yet he won't kiss me on the lips? I don't get it. Seems like he wants to kinda get close but like he doesn't trust me, or us. ???

He says I always up his A$$ and that I never made a life of my own. That i let all of my friendships die, and don't have any friends. That I shouldn't have put him and our girls 1st all of the time, I need to basically GAL.

M:28 H:30
DD-9| DD-7| Baby- Due 11/10
T-14 | M-8

10/08- Bomb
4/09- Failed attempt at Marriage Fitness Program
3/10- WH moved out.
7/10- Informed me he's filing in Aug