Now that I have had several days to think things through, I now know it was miscommunication, something we obviously have to still work on.

I am still dealing with other issues though. How do I let go of some of the pain I still carry from when he wanted a separation/divorce ? How do I know he won't ask for this again any day at any time ?

Even though I had no proof of an affair and he denies one, I get such an anxious feeling whenever he wants to get together with the Guys or whenever I can't reach him on the cell. I do trust him, but theses feeling creep back every time.Can I get over these feelings?


Me:43
H:43
T:20 YRS
M:15 YRS
Bomb: 6/9/08
Bomb#2 7/6/10
Served with papers at work 7/13/10
DD:14, DD:11