Ann, you fit perfectly right here.

<<I never wanted this for my marriage and i busted my butt to try and prevent this, but there is only so much i can do alone.

This is EXACTLY my story.

I'm so glad you're not scared. I'm so glad to hear you say that you're a good woman and a good mom.

Things will be okay. They will get better, & you will be allright.

Hugs


M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months
4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10
I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.