I feel like a few of those comments may have been indirectly about me. Let me just say that I was very appreciative of all of the support I received here and I want to give that back to you all. I was absent for a long period of time for a variety of reasons, including: surgery, reconnection time w/W, and trying to get caught back up at work (which is where I usually log into this site from). Not excuses, but I want you all to know how appreciative I am and that although I was absent you were all in my thoughts. I do intend to keep offering a listening ear and any advise I can give. One problem I have, though, is that my sit turned around so quickly and radically I find that it may not be helpful to others. All I can say and offer to everyone here is that my marriage was healed by God's grace, not of my own doing, and that I hope everyone will wholeheartedly run to God.
