There was one man but different country. Think they are youngish so may be on bebo or was thinking of checking out some of the other girls that work there's bebo and making up a fake one to add then see if she and him are on it lol
Listen, you've all been great, and I take my hat off to all of you for trying so hard at your marriage but I just can't do this to myself any longer. I'm feeling stronger and I'm not nearly as scared as when this first happened. I'm giving him an ultimatum tomorrow. He is waiting around for me to make the decision and I think I already have. The lies, deceit, the self obsession. He is out drinking every weekend having a ball and I have had enough. I've lost respect for him. He is not now horrible and arrogant. I don't think I even like him now.
I need to know where I stand and then I need to get on with my life.
I'm going out tomorrow with the girls and I'm going to have fun no matter what happens.
I have so many friends, I'm still young,have a good job, and a good figure now :-) he has so much going for him, financial security for life, beautiful house, great job, freedom to do whatever he likes and this doesn't make him happy.
I need to know what I'm dealing with. I hope some of you can understand.
