(((Amy))) I have an unbelievable amount of respect for you for how you're handling this, it's amazing.
I can't do it - although, I spent 2.5 years treating W like a QUEEN, and all I got out of it was resentment, bitterness, and disrespect, so obviously that doesn't work in my situation.
I have informed W that I won't have anything to do with her, except where necessary for the kids, and that's right for me - but at the same time, I'm very jealous of you, and how you can have that sweet spirit.
It really challenges me - but I see my kids hurting every day, and I can't stand it.
Sigh, Lord grant me grace!
So glad to hear about your good days - let's go for four, then five, then 9, then 30!
