So yesterday on my way to my friends house where I am staying my H sends me a text. For clarity, the friends I am staying with, I'll call them G and T. G and T are very good friends with me and my H. G is the husband, T is the wife, my very very good friend.
In the text H asks me to let G have his castle for the evening. T is out of town until next Tuesday. I texted back that sure that's a great idea I wondered if G was going to feel weird since T was gone for a long weekend visiting her family.
So I called T and asked "Did G want me and S not to stay there while you were gone?" She laughed and said no way, he was asking me what he should make you all for dinner. Come to find out from H himself, it was his idea that S and I spend the evening at home with him to give G back his castle.
I was thrilled, but hid it.
The evening was so "normal", it was very much like it was in happier days.
And then this morning, the only contact we've had has been related to our house and our insurance company. (We had a break in not too long ago. Pain in the rearside.)
So, I am pleased to say that while I'm bummed the contact has been completely business, I'm happy I haven't reacted to it. I was actually expecting it and acted accordingly.
Hopefully, he'll come stay with me and S at G and T's place because now they are both out of town. So I have their house to myself.
Believe nothing they say and only 50% of what they do.