Stop the self pity. I got an IRS letter last month regarding taxes they claim we owe from 1987 (yes, 21 years ago...). WE ALL get our "crap" (put myself thru college/law school and H did college/veterinary school and med school without a CENT from the Gov or family and so did ALL of my 9 siblings) so you are not alone.
You are in a country where no one is shooting at you or stopping you from worshipping as you please, you have shelter over your head, there is no famine or drought threatening your life or your family's. You are fundamentally healthy as are all your family members. No one has been murdered or threatened by an enemy, nor are there rebel tribes hacking off the limbs of family members and -- ALL those things are happening right now to innocent people as I type this -- and AGAIN it's happening as you read this. Literally.
Also, your wife did not "get pregnant" by herself. (I don't even know where to begin with that comment...never mind. ) Don't become a bitter lonely man b/c your wife made some selfish choices. So now You are letting HER dictate how YOU live your life? Yes you are IF becoming bitter is the response you choose. It's not an appropriate response and It's really not healthy either. You are better than this. (( j ))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
