She said our marriage started to crumble 2 to 3 years ago, she said she has tried to hold it all together for the family but could not do it any longer. She cites the "I love you but am not IN love you any more" because of the closeness we have lost due to children, work, new home etc. That is the reason she gives and to me everything else is superfluous 'excuses'.
I need to re-kindle our friendship, closeness etc but it seems as though she has checked out of our marriage completely.
She VOCALIZED that to you 2-3 years ago, or she NOW says it "started to crumble 2-3 years ago"????
