My niece was discharged from her treatment center fairly quickly. She's still working through things, but being in there with other kids going through similar and/or worse situations really opened her eyes. She told us that she was the only one that had visitors and calls. She said that she realized the amount of love and support that she's fortunate to have with her friends and family and that she wants to live!
I've been alone since Wed. morning. D4 left with my parents to spend some time with my family. She and my family were so excited that she was able to go. She's been having a blast and it's only Friday. When D4 left, H also left for a few days to go see his family. Surprisingly, H has called each day. I talked to him last night for a few minutes when he was at one of our friend's house. H asked what I was doing and why I wasn't out whooping it up. I told him that I was going to do that on Sat. with a friend from work. He was surprised. My phone rang at 2:30 this morning. It was H. He talked to me for about 20 minutes. He was quiet. Not sure why he called. I guess I expected him to leave for home and not talk to me at all with the way he's acted lately.
Now on to me. I've been a bit lazy the past few days. I told myself that I'd do whatever I wanted to while the family was out of town.....and I have, which has been nothing the past 2 nights. I have a list of "TO DO" things for the next few days. I'm planning on going out with a friend on Sat. night. I miss D4 and H, but having this time to me has been good.
Work has been busy, so that's a good thing too.
Take care everyone!
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day
