Never say Never; it's worth the fight!

[glamgirl]

It's ok Treese. Sometimes we just have to say what is really on our minds. Not sure if you feel bettr after letting some of it out, but the problem is right now your h isn't listening, nor could he care. So it doesn't matter what you say, he won't hear it the way you expect him to.

Now in the future that could change, but not right now. That is why you must live your life for Treese. We can't bring these foolish men to see what is right and just. It isn't about that, but freedom for them. Hey I get to do what I want and I don't have to have you hoovering over my shoulder telling me what I should be doing. They want to be free to make their own choices, whether we think they are right or wrong.

You are doing good Treese. You life has been turned upside down, and it's ok to grieve and cry over what we have lost. Just don't let it consume who you really are.