If I had the sex life I have always wanted my thoughts would be more along the lines of "What we would be doing next time", instead of "Is she going to be open or closed to me?" I would not be so obsessed and anxious about sex. I would have much more energy to devote to other thoughts. Also my thoughts about sex would be shared with my lover instead of hidden, she would actually want to hear about what I am thinking of sex-wise.
I would be so much more patient with my D, everyone in fact would benefit from my improved mood.
Wow stress would be at an all time low. Depression? What were there be to be depressed about? I would feel so close to and loved by my W, there would be no question that she loves me so and so much joy in making each other feel so good. I would be shouting how great my SL is from the roof tops and trying to help others find their way to a life like this (kinda like DQ does).
I would feel so close to and loved by my W. Our love would be stronger than ever. It would be the love that I dreamed of having going into marriage.
Giving things up to have a SL like this is an interesting question. Early in my M I gave up playing music because I wanted more free time to be with my W. I actually returned to playing as an outlet when sex went downhill.
My body would be exactly the same as it is now. More hair on top of my head would be nice though.
To get to a great SL from here?... My partner would have to change or I'd have to find a new partner. We would never get to my idea of a great sex with her attitude as it is now. The changes in her would have to be a healthy attitude towards sex. I really do believe there is some repulsion about sex for her. Sex therapy, I suppose, would be the only way to get there from here. How to get her to a ST I have no idea.
