While I think Sandi is on the right track - nothing is as attractive as someone who is going out and living life to the fullest - I'm not so sure about the idea of implying that you're heading out with other women. Seems to me like that could backfire - be taken by W as permission to do the same kinda thing herself.
Thread #10 22 year M, MLC, Piecing since 1/07 Goal: Live with confidence & enthusiasm!