The more I hear from fellow 'nice guys' the more I see the error of my ways in regard to my wife's position. Thanks for the support, I really appreciate it. Would/could this be seen as a 180 as I am slightly confused, I was very selfish and did things to suit myself ie, sport, non-commital to pre and post natal baby classes, not around when the children were young, though in my defence I was working weekends a fair amount of the time, and if I wasn't I'd be playing golf. Am I being too hard on myself as these are not the reasons my wife is divorcing me? By putting her and my children to the top of my priority list I feel I am already doing a 180, which in turn is something I am doing for myself as a part of self-analysis and improvement.
I would also like to hear from a womens POV.
Mark
W
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
