Peace it's not that your h chose ow over you, it's that he chose a life that was easier. How easy it is to pick up a life with someone else. No responsibilities, no mortgage, not bills, no fighting, no kids, wow who wouldn't choose that over a M.

In the beginning it seems less complicated and easier, the problem is that just like every R it can get old especially when more of the difficult stuff of life starts creeping in. Like finances and responsibilities. Eventually true colors do seep out.

Your h will have regrets one day. Peace you can't let go, because you still love the h that you were M to. There is nothing wrong with that. You have depth and character.

Stay strong!


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"