I will never get your laws and status and agreements... For us here it is easy : wife gets screwed, husband lives a comfortable life. No 401K sharing, no going back asking for half of what the wife threw in the marriage, VERY little money for CS... I found an article that said that BECAUSE CS money is so little, Divorced women association didnt accept the change of law regarding joint custody. The thinking behind it is :you dont give me any money and even after court's ruling, if you refuse to fullfil your obligations there is no way I can legally force you to, and you will have a saying in the kdis' lives?
Come to think of it, sounds reasonable. That's why all the lawyers I talked to said I am crazy to offer that to him. K
