Lan - Sorry buddy, been away for a bit and just this minute caught up on this whole thread and latest developments.
Think you have some great advise or suggestions from others but always remember, these are from the outside and there might be some important aspects we are not aware of that change the way you attack this or at least how you attack this fresh challenge.
I agree, what's good for the goose and all that, but don't do it deliberately. If you have female friend, yeah, go spend time with them but dont go out looking for female friends as they may want more (assuming as you mentioned your not ready for that yet) and get the wrong idea.
I actually thought you had been doing the GALing and had that nailed but maybe that stopped as you have mentioned. Get back to that big time, live you life as if you are seperated and given the few things you've said about your future together, I don't think acting as if you are not together will do to much harm. All the time knowing that you do really want her. Remember, it's human nature to always want what we cant have !!!!
So get back to the basic principles of DB :
GAL Act As If Life live for you and your D
I really feel you can do no more now, you've done so much but maybe you just get that little hint things are getting better and then pressure. Forget about your W specifically for now (as best you can) and work 100% on you and enjoying yourself. 1 of 2 things will happen, she will love it and come back running and great or she will love it and come back running but you'll have moved on but be fine to deal with a D.
Good luck as always buddy and I expect a post on Monday about how you are shattered from so much GALing this weekend
