trusting good for you...and thanks for keeing your thread....it some hw is really helpful to see hoe others get through this...you bomb and time line are close to mine, however you d was earlier...mine final in oct 08 but losts of mess us with the finances and we are hoping to finsh that u today otherwise court n tuesday....but my main thing i notice is my x seems miserable when i see him he looks bad...say him at sons game last night just not the same man cheers some, but nothing like he used too....and to me looks so different...its weird but i used to think he was the most handsome man in the world and now I see him different...hes aged , gained alot of weight...however we dont talk..everytime it has been spew so last time was in Jan and I told him I was srry he felt that way but I had to go...I did add it was Satan loving all this spewing so he took off on that comment and I hung up....anyway just interesting...my son says he is very moody...up then down....so its just weird u know they think they want this divorce, they get it and sure arent happy...i wonder with your h...should you say...are you happier now that we arent together...well i guess thats not DB though? h well keep posting and moving forward...I belive we need to stay eternity minded anyway there is much going on in the world and I want to think oif the big picture and really prepare and be ther efor the kids