Ok, then I would do what Puppy mentioned a while ago to someone else. First, you ask your W to break it off and why. Then, you bring in a trusted friend/family member to tell him to break it off and why. If that doesn't work, you get a pastor/church members. You tell more and more people, until he stops. Not people "just to tell", but people that will go to him and talk to him. The fewer people that know, the better. But, you go by what your H does. If he won't stop, you keep getting more people. You are fighting for your marriage. Sometimes you can't do it alone. It all depends on your spouse.
