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Of course she does. Just start small and work your way up to some bigger things with momentum.

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Why are you so sure ? I need to know .

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Because I believe in a person I have never laid eyes on and probably never will. I believe in this guy because I have one thing in common with him and that is the freakin' pain of a spouse deciding for the whole family it's over, no more family. I agree with him that is some really unfair crap and I plan to fight just as hard as I know he wants too.
But for some reason, this SOB wants to jump out of our boat. It's uncomfortable and cramped, but really, in my heart, despite my back slide, despite his wife's actions, I do NOT believe we are the band on the Titanic. So put the damn violin down and get you DB A$$ kicking face on and GAL and keep your PMA.
You're a Jersey Boy, you'll understand this: Throw off the gloves and I'll see you in the middle of the rink.

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I've planned on fighting till its over regardless of what my W says . Once I've exhausted all my efforts then I'll step it up a little more . She's just seems to be so far gone .

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I agree you are right on the mark when you say she is ashamed of what she's pulled. And she should be. You have to take every opportunity to let her know it's over and done with, you're over it and she should be too.

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Hello.
How are you today?
What are you doing for the weekend?
It's gorgeous here in Florida. Thought about not getting out of bed today, but decided to be a grown up and here I am at work, posting with you!! \:D

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I'll be in Florida next month . A good friend lives in Naples and I'm coming down to play golf . Currently reading a e-book called " How to be a Graet Partner " by Mark Webb . I saw it on the internet and called him ( Georgia ) . After hearing my story he e-mailed it to me for free and said we men must stick together .

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I'm way up in the northern part of the state, that is actually more like Georgia, at least in climate.
I'm glad Mr. Webb reached out to you.
What's the gist of the book?

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Being a rock , a champion for your spouse . Not being right but being together . Being a great partner vs. just a good partner .
80 / 20 rule ( 80% of time you like them then forget the 20% you don't ) , what men want , what woman want , vow to be respectful , keeping your promises , shut up - listen , unconditional love , lasting commitments , etc...

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