Thanks for that. I guess it looks as though I am being treated like a doormat, but I know what her reaction will be if I say I am staying - complete hysteria, crying, you probably know the sort of things I mean. I am being dumped and yet I am the one who is dancing to her tune. I find it interesting you say being 'nice' may have pushed her even further away - is standing up to her going to bring her closer or will I merely be trying to assert a degree of masculinity for my own mental good and get back a degree of control?
Mark
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years