Well, its not really me taking her out. She saw the ad for a certain comedian in the newspaper when we were eating lunch, and it was actually her that said we should get tickets. Of course I said yeah we should.
I dont' really know who the 'friend' she had dinner with is. I didn't really want to push it. But I do wonder if it's the person I mentioned in the 9th post of this thread...though she does have mostly female friends. What I don't like about these friends (though they are nice people) is that I think they are all supposedly in unhappy marriages...at least that's what she has told me. And I think hearing about all of their unhappy marriages has a bad affect on our situation and makes her think that her life would be unhappy too.
But the moving in with her sister came about I think cause she wanted a separation and one of us to move out cause she said she "felt suffocated" and said I was "reminder of the hurt/pain". And I told her I wasn't going to move out. And said that neither of us could really move out cause we cna't afford it right now, esp since I just got layed off last week. But it did kinda shock me when she said she would move to her sisters and come visit our son on weekends. I didn't think she would ever want to not see our son everyday.