I think it's more my annoyance that he is talking to one sister and his mum about how unhappy he is but not telling the full story, he hasn't said about the o/w, he is trying to down play it like it was a kiss and they are just friends. I know s it's BS .

Argghh. Maybe it's just me being bitter and wanting revenge.

The only way I could get to her husband/boyfriend is to go via someone in his work, and that won't guarantee they give me the home number and it puts them in a very awkward position.

I'm hoping that when his mum chats to his sister about it, she will mention it.

His family are very upstanding, good people. I don't think they will be impressed at all but he has always done his own thing. Youngest of five, think he is always rebelling lol.

The sister he in confiding in is lovely but they are very close and she will ultimately want him to be happy, especially if she thinks no one else is involved.

He said she was the least judgemental sister.

Thank you for your reply.


H 36 2nd marriage
me 32 1st marriage
no kids