And I just found PM for next to nothing used. Ordered it. (Sort of tricky to find the cheap, used hardcover copies of this book on Amazon, but they do exist. Lots of 'em.)
me: 50 w (waw): 45 daughter: 9 m: 16 t: 19 bomb: 9/26/08 status: physical separation for 7 weeks, then work-in-progress R