Many different views on this subject any mods/coaching any advice?
Put my husband out after discovering e/a or p/a, not spoken for two days. He seems to really care for this o/w and said he would try break it off but I feel he has become very dependent on her.
My feeling is that it will create worse situation and show me in a bad light if I do this, like I'll look needy, hysterical, like I can't cope without him. on the other hand, I don't want to look like a doormat and I know he is not telling people because he is ashamed to admit it.
He can't even tell me if he wants to be with me or loves me.
anyone else feel free to chip in.
Those of you whom have already offered advice on my other thread, I am listening, just going to weigh it all up.
