I have asked my attorney to freeze STBX's 112K bank account, and allow me to access those "marital assets to pay for D18s school and medical expenses. I am most likely going to go to litigation. This woman needs to be taken on HEAD ON. She will never be reasonable NEVER. When I asked to do a collaborative divorce, she once stated "I'm not going to abdicate ANY of my rights" Okey dokey.......... Apparently even the mediator referred to her as a crazy person to my attorney's paralegal. (Don't ask me why she shared that, but she did)