WAW - Possible MLC I need help, WAWs advice V

[25yearsmlc]

LD,

sorry to hammer you twice in one day but you said if things don't work out then
..."30 years is a waste" Wow...

Nope. NOT SO.... If my m ends tomorrow and I have gone thru all the DBing and piecing for "nothing"...I won't consider it a waste. Why?

BECAUSE OF:

1) MY KIDS lives...if this was the ONLY way I could have these 3 wonderful people in my life, then I'd do it all again (100 times over) in a heartbeat. They make it ALL worthwhile no matter what my h does or how my M goes.

2) I'd much rather know I worked too long and too hard to save the M--than to worry that I had quit too soon.

3) I'm a much better more loving, "awake" woman than before all this. I benefit from that; my loved ones benefit from that, and maybe a man will also benefit from this. ( if not h, then someone else.)

4) I'm closer to my kids than before.

5) I have a better relationship with God than before.


Any of this resonate with you?

(( j ))