Thanks, Bagheera.

I'll take a look at the posts that you recommended. Thanks for the advice. It might take me two or three days. I'm accompanying my wife to a conference and I won't likely have internet access for a couple days.

I appreciate the tips on previous discussions in the forums. I'm certain my situation is far from unique. I'm certain many people have experienced a similar situation. And I'm sure I can learn from them.

Maybe there is some hope.

Yo ho ho and a bottle of rum.



me: 50
w (waw): 45
daughter: 9
m: 16
t: 19
bomb: 9/26/08
status: physical separation for 7 weeks, then work-in-progress R

my story