I'll take a look at the posts that you recommended. Thanks for the advice. It might take me two or three days. I'm accompanying my wife to a conference and I won't likely have internet access for a couple days.
I appreciate the tips on previous discussions in the forums. I'm certain my situation is far from unique. I'm certain many people have experienced a similar situation. And I'm sure I can learn from them.
Maybe there is some hope.
Yo ho ho and a bottle of rum.
me: 50 w (waw): 45 daughter: 9 m: 16 t: 19 bomb: 9/26/08 status: physical separation for 7 weeks, then work-in-progress R