Hi 25. Not a problem at all.

I've been following Kevin's sitch since the beginning.

You are right in terms of his going back and forth and much of it is based on what his W wants.

The point of my last post was actually in accordance to what you've been saying in that HE needs to be the one to make the decisions. That's why there was just a small change in his thinking through the dialogue that I was trying to point out.

We both know it comes down to his kids. Everything else she has direct control of - house, finances, etc. So he can control his own destiny (and I think he's coming around) by working someplace small in the same area so he can see his kids.

I don't consider his W in the equation. It's all up to him as you've stated and to stick with it. And right now he needs a goal to focus on which I think is his kids. How he reaches that goal is up to him.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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