we all have our limits and you've reached yours (I refused to set mine and it was a mess) Anyways, if the partying is messing you up there are gazillion other things you can do, depending on what you like. Find a meet-up group that likes the same thing you do (other than partying) Volunteering is a way to give back, to recieve as you give, give it a try. You sound good, glad to hear that you got all the financial stuff settled.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
