Originally Posted By: JDOllie
Quick point: it is not about being "harsh" - it is about doing the right thing.


You are right.

But I cannot talk to him then. I'm not answering the phone anymore. It does no good. I feel pressured to be nice, and then I feel used when I am.

Why talk to him if I have to be cold and distant? I am a nice person and why should I have to change myself?

Just because he's messed up doesn't mean that has to change who I am.

If I am cold and distant, he will go on and on about "What's wrong?, why are you so cold?, blah, blah, blah"

Don't want to deal with it.

Thanx JDOllie

Last edited by Belle; 03/13/09 02:32 AM.
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