"And when the MLCer comes out of it, they are still the same broken person full of faults they were prior to their MLC. "
I don't know--who is to say they do not grow, eventually? Maybe not with us, but you can't not change in such a situation. Some change for the worse and spend the rest of their lives mulling around complaining.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D