"And when the MLCer comes out of it, they are still the same broken person full of faults they were prior to their MLC. "

I don't know--who is to say they do not grow, eventually? Maybe not with us, but you can't not change in such a situation. Some change for the worse and spend the rest of their lives mulling around complaining.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D