Hi, You all are great and much comfort! Even anonymously strange as it seems. Since I can't tell anyone what is going on...you all are a great source of support and wisdom.
I thought I would let you all know I spoke with DB coach today. Very interesting......
Things she said I should do as the LBS (although not quite left behind yet since H still lives here!)
1) Create passion (not in bedroom, but flirt outside the home and in other rooms so as not to appear nurturing...mother-like). Makes sense.
2) GAL (yeah...I get it. I just need to get working on that - have been meaning to pick up that guitar for years).
3) Stop the need to get a hug and kiss before H leaves in the morning. (clingy...I know but I can't help myself). Working on that!
4) Dress younger. (Working on that too. Heals, dresses, etc. I have lost 25 lbs. so feel a bit better about myself - 5'9 140lb. 10 lb to go!
5) Feel my sexual side (Working on that....shy gal and pta mom. I guess I need to work on being a "cougar") ha ha.
6) Don't initiate sex in the bedroom. Boring! (Dang)
Anyway...I thought these were all some interesting suggestions for a gal who is trying to woo back her H from OW after 20 years of M. What are your thoughts?
