Today is the 12th and my H has come home....oh great already.
Two days ago he texted me and was saying that he missed me and that he loved me and that he could not wait to get home. I am starting to get excited that maybe we will have a good time when he gets home and he is making plans that he would like to do with me when he is home until (approximatly) the 25th.
The next day I had called him to see how he was because he had hurt his leg at work and its a totally different story. He is mad at me about the money issue again becuase he mom called him telling him that the girls had told her about it when they spent the night at her house this past weekend. That they were very upset about it and that they had told thier teachers about it at school. Now I am a b***h and I am conniving, and this is nothing but an arranged marriage because he doesn't want to be around me anymore and that he thinks that I am hiding money from him and telling him that I dont' have any so that he will give me money and then I can hide more. Well there goes the I love you bit!!
I tried to defend myself as much as I could but it becme obvious that he really did not care what I said. So I just gave up and stopped talking to him. I did talk to my girls when they came home and they said that they did talk to his mom that weekend but they never told thier teachers anything. I have to explain the word theif to my youngest, which was the exact word that his mom said the girls used to her and their teachers. His mom exagerates in my opinion. I called and asked her that the next time that my girls talk to her about something that important that maybe she could call me instead so I could talk to them instead of calling my H who is on the road and can't handle the situation anyway and who is getting T'd off at me about it. She said she would, I doubt it.
Today I am almost out of the house on my way to work and he calls. "What you doing, hon?" Hello, there is my sweet h again. I tell him what I am doing and ask him what he is doing, driving is the answer, when you going to get home, 10 minutes. He never called to let me know he was on his way home. Want to know why? So he could try to catch me doing something wrong or catch me with someone. I would bet my paycheck on it.
I left and went to work. He calls me later about something that I forget now but he says that he is going to do some laundry and wants to know if there is dirty laundry in the bedroom. I don't know if there is and tell him so. He says that he figures there has to be some becuase the bedroom is a freaking mess. Well excuse me but everything else in the house is spotless and all the chores have been done except the bedroom and he never acknowledges that I cleaned the whole house and it looks good.
We are off to a good start. So to answer your question about what would happen if I did not do the chores by the time he got home, that is it. I have more important things to do in my life time than make sure that all the laundry is put away!! It was washed, dried, folded, and put in front of our dressors and yes there was some other stuff on the floor because I was in a hurry the last two days and left my clothes on the floor, but who cares???
Being a conniving b***h that I am, I am probably hiding something under all that dirty clothes!!
Me-31 Him-28 D1-9 D2-6 Married 5-06 Seperated 12-07 He filed 1-08 Reconciled 4-08 D dropped 7-08 Bomb dropped about H's activities outside the marriage 4-21-09 Filed for D 4-28-09 Trying to make a go of it 6-09
