The suck part of MLC is the growth the LBS goes through in so many ways. And when the MLCer comes out of it, they are still the same broken person full of faults they were prior to their MLC. So an LBS who actually did work and improved themselves is now looking back at their spouse, and questioning if they did the right thing.
We love not despite a person faults but with those faults included.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
