Why? Because things are happening so fast that you two keep colliding. He's not married? In months? Hmm.... Part of the script from what I've seen.
For now? Take the advice you've been getting - detach. Stop driving yourself nuts and stop beating yourself up for caring. You do care. Ok. But if you care, you need to detach. Stop letting him cake eat of course but don't lash out like a child.
It's going to be a while. It'll change faster if you change and detach. Stop the R talk and refuset to talk about it with him. You'll be glad you did even if it does not seem like it right now. I can speak from experience on that one
It's not easy. You'll slide again. You'll let something get the better of you. Let it go.
Set your eyes on your goals and don't take your eyes off of them.
It's not easy, but you can do it. Slow it down and make him play to your slow pace.
Be the change you want the world to see.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
