Wait...he never showed an interest in the cats before and now all of a sudden he wants to come over and "visit them"?
I would be insulted too if I were you Pearl. It is pretty condescending for him to think you would believe his intentions are to visit the cats.
Not to tread on any toes, but my response would be "We both know you are not coming for the cats, so please stop asking to see them."
Not sure you should listen to me tho, I am feeling pretty disgusted so my judgment may be off.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
