I agree with AnotherNightmare, that both need to be committed to working on R and I also think you need to restore the connection or at least partially before watching also.
Yeah this ^
Trying to get the WAS to read/watch/act on R building materials too early will just come across as pressure. It also makes it look like you think they are the problem in the R and they need fixing.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
