IMO the key point is that it cannot be pursuing that makes the WAS watch the movie with the LBS. I think that leaves very few opportunities to watch the movie together with the WAS.
In my case, I watched the movie on my own and then left the DVD for my W while I went on a business trip. I think she watched it. And even that I felt might have been borderline pursuing.
So bottomline, unless both of you are committed to working on the R, watch the movie alone.
M43 W45, M17 S9 D6 Bomb: 11/11/08 EA: 10/26-12/31/08 ? Retrouvaille: 2/13-2/15/09 Healed, but still heading for D My situation
