I agree with 2gthr.

Your H has been cake eating for far too long. Attract him back by showing him your attitude. No pressure just a statement of facts.

Keep things strictly business. Be the first one to detach so he has no choice but to look inwards. The thing about MLC is that those in the throes of it are prone to intense mood swings. Don't let him control you.

You're doing great so far on your GAL. Keep it up.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER