Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
I'm going to take the educated guess that she has LIED to her attorney thus far, perhaps even pretty substantially, and that her atty was surprised by what you had.

Personally, there are only a few people in life to whom I think it makes NO SENSE WHATSOEVER to lie to, morality aside:

Your doctor.
Your lawyer.
Your individual counselor.

Yet wayward spouses almost always lie to all three.

Puppy
Yeah, Tuesday afternoon I was offered 60 days of every other weekend with D(1) if I released $8,000 that W wanted from savings. So that worked out to about $1,000 per day.

When her attorney received my case file Tuesday afternoon, all of a sudden she was bending over backwards wanting me to have as much time as possible with D(1) and wanting to negotiate a settlement.

Before the hearing, W was basically trying to dictate how things were going to go and her attorney kept making snide remarks about how they were going to bulldoze me. Now they are in full flight panic mode and wanting to "work things out" without a fight in a meeting next Tuesday morning.


"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."