Should There Be Laws (Tort) Against Adultery?

[hoosiermama]

I am all for this!! or at the very least, that adultery once again be valid grounds for divorce, with appropriate financial consequences. I have proof that H left his family to be with OW, I have proof that it has had horribly negative effects on us, I have proof that I asked OW to "cease and desist" and she declined to do so because she was "supporting us in this" and "searching for how to serve in this space" and placing more importance on the "deep bond based upon similar views and life goals" between her and H (after a week of relationship) than on our covenant and contract. And in my state, it is illegal even to mention her name during the course of the proceedings because she's irrelevant in this no-fault state. She willfully and knowingly broke up our marriage, in spite of my request to leave H alone and let us heal the marriage for the sake of our daughter. However, their lives go on without consequence as we struggle for necessities because of H's choices. And it seems this is not only legal, but almost encouraged as a way toward personal fulfillment.