Good for you!!! Your post made so much sense to me just now. I know the GALing was for me - but also as a 180 and for my W to take notice, gain back her attraction, etc.
It never really hit me that if it didn't help with her, it would help with others - like my beautiful kids! I know I'm getting happier (and healthier) now that I've taken time for me, but now I need to give the kids some of the attention that has been placed on my W and R for the past 18 months.
