mules...it is getting harder and harder to remember what good times were like with STBXW. The years of pain are rapidly equaling up to the years of good. How sad. April 25th would have been/will be our 10th anniversary. It's been three years of hell. You can do the math.

Staying under the same roof is not good. I can say ONE GOOD THING ABOUT IT: it forces a settlement and prevents a dragout D. Don't leave, obviously.

As the months have rolled away, I hear continual divorce horror stories..at least two boys on our baseball team without a dad. I don't find comfort in knowing this...just that I am not alone.

I don't think there is 'an answer' to the high divorce rate.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;