Maybe I should be in piecing part 7?

[Hope4us]

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http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1698405&page=1&fpart=1

Here's the last couple posts.

I asked:

Thanks Pup. But it still makes me nervous.

What do you think about throwing in an "I love you" sometime soon?

Puppy Posted:

I would be in favor of TRYING it once. Do NOT do it during ML or immediately afterward or the next day.

Just make sure you try it in her good ear.


Puppy

Comments anyone?

[Sara]

I think the safest time to say it is during sex. Isn't that when people first say it?

[whatdidido]

Do you love her? Tell her. Whenever you want. A well rehearsed "I love you" is not the same as one that you can't hold in.

[Puppy Dog Tails]

I think the safest time to say it is during sex. Isn't that when people first say it?

Yes, but men would say ANYTHING during sex. Hell, I'd offer to CLEAN THE GARAGE and register National Socialist Party for a good beejay.

Puppy

[fightingirish]

holy chit puppy!! that made me laugh out loud!!

Needed that!! Im going to have to remind my h how lucky he is.

Hope, i agree with sara, but I wouldn't push it. wait until the right time and she is fully alert.

[Mellenmack]

lmao, Puppy.

I will say two things about when you guys say ILY when making love though.

One. I truly don't believe that my husband is so stupid as to say or agree to anything during sex. What he would do to GET sex or the beejay is different than what he says during it. So, shallow enough to say it during, NO, but shallow/silly enough to agree to socialist party to GET it, lmao, yeah prolly. But I love him anyway and a little bit because of it.

Two. Right now in my spot, prolly nothing would mean more to me than to hear ILY any time, but especially during sex. It means something. And it means something DIFFERENT than when you just toss it over your shoulder on the way out the door or even when you send it across the dinner table with the kids. ILY during sex is ten times more intense and meaningful than any other time. *I think*. But who am I???



Melissa

[Puppy Dog Tails]

lmao, Puppy.

I will say two things about when you guys say ILY when making love though.

One. I truly don't believe that my husband is so stupid as to say or agree to anything during sex. What he would do to GET sex or the beejay is different than what he says during it. So, shallow enough to say it during, NO, but shallow/silly enough to agree to socialist party to GET it, lmao, yeah prolly. But I love him anyway and a little bit because of it.

Two. Right now in my spot, prolly nothing would mean more to me than to hear ILY any time, but especially during sex. It means something. And it means something DIFFERENT than when you just toss it over your shoulder on the way out the door or even when you send it across the dinner table with the kids. ILY during sex is ten times more intense and meaningful than any other time. *I think*. But who am I???



Melissa

Yeah, and what the hell do I know anyway? I haven't had sex since the Clinton administration.

[kat727]

Now don't lie puppy!! You know you are ahead of me on the recent count.

kat

[Vdad]

Puppy,

LOL... How do you do it man?

V

[InLikeFlynn]

What do you think about throwing in an "I love you" sometime soon?

Puppy Posted:

I would be in favor of TRYING it once. Do NOT do it during ML or immediately afterward or the next day

I would play this by ear...if it looks like she wants to hear it then say so. This is a minefield. Plus he doesn't get many opportunites as it is!!!