I haven't heard from you in a day or two, so I came over to read your thread. I want you to know that I admire the way you have handled yourself. I have children, and to the best of my knowledge, my wife has not had an affair.
I'll be honest, if I did not have children, and my wife had had an affair, I would be saying "to hell with you!" I'd be sitting in a lawyers office right now trying to figure out just how badly I could hurt her in the divorce.
The fact that you have not done this yet means that you have a tremendous amount of character. I also figure that it also probably means you're a man who trusts God, but I'm not trying to make any assumptions; also, I digress.
I hope these words have been some encouragement. Hang in there, stay dark, work on you; you know what to do better than I. We reniassance men have to stick together.
I never have my DB book with me when I'm at my computer. I keep running into abbreviations that I can't match in my head. What's GAL? Someone please let me know.
Take care, and give me a shout when you have time.
Me: 39 Wife: 41 Boys: 8 & 5 WAW: 02/11/2009 She Filed For D: 03/26/2009 - Yeah it was that quick!
