Sure. I completely understand. My H has done the same thing, in terms of talking to to many people. But that can resolve itself over time. I think it would start with Oh, we're on speaking terms now....for the kids. Then it grows to We're getting along quite well now....no not because the kids, we're grown ups after all. Then He's doing great, we went to dinner the other night with the kids.....you get it. It will just take time. The reality is, if people hear you divorce they say "O, that's too bad." When they hear you made it, "O, great for them." It really doesn't register with anyone either way.
