I have another question. She keeps trying to pin me down into "R" talks. If I say that nothing is on my mind, or that there's nothing to talk about, or try to deflect, she does that "OHKAY, WHATS WRONG??" thing. I try to be "dim," but it seems to piss her off.
MC #2 in 2.5 hours. I'm going to try to apply my DB Coach's technique. Will let you all know the outcome later today.
I think you say "as long as you're involved in an affair, there's really no 'relationship' to talk about. And everything else is Legal, and probably best handled by the lawyers, sad to say. End your affair, and I'd be happy to discuss ANYTHING with you, including my issues."
