For background me and my wife are piecing, divorce busted, so I usually only offer advice that I think applies. And I know the stages and the resources back and forth.
I guess with him coming around, I figure he should be tough enough to be able to handle some directness from you, that what I did with my wife. In fact I was no where near as nice as I suggested you be in my directness.
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Although, neither XH nor I have been very good at the direct approach in the past. It would be something different.
My question to you then is this.
Do you want your old broken marriage back then and if not, when do you change the dynamic of it?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
