If he's not married and hasn't been in months don't let him kiss you on the lips anymore. Don't stay in the house when it's His time with your S. go for a walk, go to the gym go do Something just not around him. If he's not married neither are you so show him that. Yes it hurts, trust me I know. But a lil' bit of the B***h in you needs to come out so you don't worry about his feelings. He's obviously not worried about yours. Another thing, I'm sure he doesn't tell you EVERYTHING so stop telling him. Keep conversations about S or bills that you share, common things, but no personal stories. We treat them like our friend while they treat us like...well.. an Ex. Yes we have to be friendly But we don't have to be his friend. Give him the same treatment and respect he gives you. Wish you lived close by so we can go GAL 2gthr!!!

Stop letting him drag you down the R talks. Tell him "now is not a good time, I'm having a great day and I'm not in the mood to talk about things that were already discussed. FRIENDS don't fight, married couples do, so there's nothing to fight or argue about since as you say, we are not married. Hope you have a great day, I know I am!!"

And end it at that!! Don't let him see how much you're hurting, if he's like my H, that's a turnoff for him. He doesn't like to see me cry either, he likes a strong woman. I used to be very strong, I let love get the best of me. I'm working on my strength now. And you should be too. NO MORE QUESTIONS :), NO MORE R TALKS \:\) No more volunteering any info. Remember You don't know everything, you don't know his every move, so he does not deserve that from you. STAY STRONG!

<3 2Gthr

M:28 H:30
DD-9| DD-7| Baby- Due 11/10
T-14 | M-8

10/08- Bomb
4/09- Failed attempt at Marriage Fitness Program
3/10- WH moved out.
7/10- Informed me he's filing in Aug